You can be interested in many things now a days, everyone can be interested in something or another but when someone is committed he/she will do anything to make it possible, they will give their life to make things happen. You might be interested in a lot of things, but true commitment means putting in the effort to really make things happen. Unfortunately, it seems like commitment is becoming more and more scarce these days. People get excited about something for a brief moment, but then lose interest almost as quickly. That’s not the kind of mindset that’s going to help you achieve your goals, whether it’s in your career, relationships, or personal life. So let’s make a commitment to ourselves and to each other to stay focused and put in the work to really make our dreams a reality. It won’t always be easy, but the rewards will be worth it in the end!
If you are interested, you will do what is convenient. But if you are Committed, you will do whatever it takes.
Commitment towards Career
Choosing the right profession could be challenging, and it’s essential to make an informed decision. Often we follow our parents or friend’s footsteps, while some let others decide for them. How many of you do real research and analysis for your education ? not many. Every year India produces millions of engineers and doctors. Less than 1% of them are achieving success in their life others join something that they dint even plan. There is no backup plan they settle for what they get. Many feel stuck with their choices, leading to depression and anxiety, which affects their overall well-being. While some survive this and live their life but deep down they don’t enjoy what they are doing. Some can’t even think of pursuing what they want because of financial and family issues. Some get trapped with added commitments like marriage and kids. Some don’t even know they are in depression and they need therapy.
My advice would be think 100 times before joining something, because that something will affect your entire life. Always have backup plans and most importantly be committed to what you want to become in life.
Importance of Commitment in Relationships
Love, Boy Friend, Girl Friend, Live in, Sex all these used to be considered taboo topics, but now they’re talking about it more openly than ever. Now a days even school kids are doing reels with their girlfriends, every other day you see someone get stored in some refrigerator in some appeasement building. Of course, we can’t solely blame western culture for this shift, but it has definitely influenced our youth. Unfortunately, sometimes people don’t know what they’re getting themselves into, and it can lead to dangerous situations. It’s important to know who you’re getting involved with and their true intentions. Days were gone, From when men tries to shy away from speaking with girls to asking sex directly. From the days Women afraid to make eye contact to saying I have 5 backup boyfriends. The society has changed rapidly.
Gen Z Commitment !
Generation Z, Now a days they have invented so many relationships. Gen Z’s approach to relationships is different from previous generations, and they are more pragmatic about love and sex. They are not prioritizing committed romantic relationships the same once it used to be and they are more reluctant to define the relationship or admit to wanting a relationship to progress Instead, they are open to mixing friendships, romantic relationships, long-term commitments, or “situationships” to meet their emotional and physical needs.
In 90’s every movie used to have a breakup song that used to be every lovers good night song. Now a days, Gen Z don’t know about break up, because they are not committed to each other in any ways. There is no deep emotional connection has taken center stage in their relationship dynamics. They are more introspective about the kinds of relationships they want to be in and are empowered with the language they need to articulate who they are and what they want from a relationship that doesn’t compromise their identity and needs.
Unlike their older peers, who live a “life time” when they are in love with commitment, Gen Z is more open and experimental to different types of relationship configurations, including open relationships, friends-with-benefits, and polyamorous relationships. Girls see Men as “Money Machines” and Boys see Girls as “Sex Machines” fun part is they both know how they think about each other. But there are always exceptions in everything, we are talking about majority.
My opinion !
My advice would be, Don’t love untill you are settled. Explore, travel around, especially never stay in your home town not because it’s bad because you will never know what’s outside world can teach you. Once you come out of your place meet new people new culture new food you will see new you.
For every boys out there, Fix your career first then start investing for two. Then go look for the love. because we can’t give 100 % on two things and 100% commitment is must needed for love. This love will stay with you, guide you, support you, because you are Committed and secure. You will be successful. Remember Women are not Sex Machines! They are embodiment of Mother Nature, who can create life embrace her you will have heaven on earth.
For every Girls it’s the same with little different. First fix your career, always stand on your own legs and have savings. Then spend as much as possible for the health and beauty because these two are the things that will get you secured future and love. Remember Men are not ATM Machines. They can be your shield that never leaves you, they can be your pain killer, show them love they will bring heavenly love to your hearts.
Let’s have commitment citizens, be it love be it career be it work, always be committed to what you do.
